The one resolution you shouldn’t make and why
The holidays are over, and we’re entering the New Year with fresh goals, the intent to reach them, and excitement for what’s possible in the coming months. Every year, the #1 most popular New Years Resolution is to lose weight. To be honest, I’ve made that resolution countless times myself, and I’m sure that you have as well. What is the first thing you think of when you hear “lose weight”?? That D word that instantly causes anxiety.
I want to encourage you to ditch the diet mentality this year. They’re almost always unsustainable, leave you feeling deprived and counting the days until the plan is over. Who can live happily like that long-term? Hardly anyone, which is precisely why these resolutions are short-lived and we resolve to try again next year. I have good news — it doesn’t have to be this way.
This year, resolve to find your perfect balance. Try a few of my favorite tips…
Balanced decisions. Resolve to make healthier decisions that make you feel great, not ones that make you miserable. It’s much more simple than following a strict plan and will leave you loving your new lifestyle. Following strict plans can leave you feeling deprived, which can lead to rebellion and that’s absolutely not what we want! Balanced decisions are far more beneficial and enjoyable long-term.
Simple changes over time. Instead of trying to do a complete overhaul of your life, start by making these smart, balanced decisions over time. Changing your habits and doing it slowly leads to creating healthier habits that last without overwhelm and confusion.
Step by Step. Start with one new healthy habit a week. With this method, you’re focusing on one thing that improves your health at a time as it becomes a part of your routine. For example, for your first week, focus on drinking enough water. Most people do not, and this is always a fabulous place to start. You’ll see and feel changes quickly, and you can move onto your second week with another small health goal to implement.
What are some of the most important aspects of your health you’d like to change? Brainstorm some manageable steps to reach these goals and get to work! I’d love to chat with you about your health goals and how I may be of help to you reaching them. Accountability is a tremendous factor in achieving your goals, and I would be delighted to be by your side as you journey through this!
Like I said, I would absolutely love to spend time with you to chat about and encourage you to focus on what is truly important to you this year. It’s easy. Click below to schedule a mini sessions with me. I promise – there is no pressure and no strings attached!
Thank you for being a faithful follower and I wish you and yours a very Happy New Year!
Jennifer M. Cross
Counselor, Speaker, and Life Coach